Monday, November 14, 2011

Sports & Morality

I'm not quite sure why the lines are blurry when combining these two. I don't know why when one is associated with the other, it's the exception to the rule. 

I love sports. I love all sports. It's not because I get an ego boost from being the girl who can pick the best fantasy sleepers or because I loved the cool jocks growing up. It's because I love the atmosphere. I love the camaraderie that only a sports game can bring. I love that the under dogs can rise above and come out ahead. I love the athleticism involved. I love having something to route for. I love that sports can quite literally bring worlds together in a peaceful manner. And I truly believe that sports, no matter which, are more mental than most people give them credit for, and damnet if I don't love a good mental challenger as much or more than a physical one.

What I don't love, is the dark side of sports. And I don't understand it. I don't understand why at The "U", a "booster" was caught trying to pay a girl to have an abortion without telling the football player father. I don't understand the concept of paying players from Universities to play, along with the full ride scholarships that so many other students didn't get. I am baffled at the thought that Michael Vick can torture and kill animals, be convicted, get out, and still be not only hired but looked to as a role model "because he is a tremendous athlete." I don't understand these things. I hope I never will. They aren't right. They don't make sense. It's not ok. 

The recent happenings at Penn State sicken me. The whole thing. Why would a graduate student see a coach acting inappropriately with a child and not report it to the police? In what world does a student only report something so horrible to their direct supervisor and leave it? Why does that supervisor in turn only report it to the president? Why is it, in that entire chain of events, that not one single person thought the appropriate person to call was the authorities and how did each of those people sleep at night?

Can someone also explain why the students of Penn State rallied together to defend someone who potentially enabled the sexual abuse of young children for years? Because he's your beloved football coach? Because he won a lot of games? Where is your justification? It's disgusting. 

I have been thinking about blogging regarding this for a while now. I just honestly don't know what to say. Just  a few days ago I blogged about the dog Sparky that I couldn't help but foster (whom now has a permanent and wonderful home, just not with us). In that blog I wrote that I thought the world would be a better place if everyone just cared a little bit more. Less than a week later, students are gathering by the thousands to protest the firing of a man that allowed child abuse to continue, because he didn't want to report claims he wasn't sure of. It hurts my heart. I don't get it. 

I love sports. I do. But this part, the part where a game- because no matter how you look at a sport, the money, the fans, the people, in the end it really is just a game- is above the basic fundamental of humanity and morality, protecting our children, is incomprehensible. 

Penn State- You should be ashamed of yourself. The students who protested should be ashamed. The many, many people who did not report the behavior, no matter how "unsure" you were of what you heard or saw. And the program, for covering it up for so long. This wasn't about a game anymore, this was about people's lives. Children's lives. You are a disgrace not just to sports, but to the essence of what it is to be a human being in our society. Don't even try to get me to understand where you were coming from because I promise, I never will.

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As a PSU and JoePa fan, I think the main thing to see is that the students were not rallying in support of JoePa's actions. I think they were gathering together to celebrate a legacy. When it comes down to it, JoePa has earned many accomplishments as a coach, and the whole situation is a sad end to a great career. Legally, he did what he was supposed to do. When it comes down to it, college football is a large, money-making business, and all business have a protocol to deal with situations like this. He followed that protocol. I do agree, however, that he did drop the ball morally. As time went on and nothing was done, he should have followed up with it. But we never will know the whole story: maybe he was told it was being handled; maybe the authorities didn't have enough evidence at the time to proceed in the investigation (JoePa never did witness it, and why did it take so long for the witnesses to step forward??); maybe JoePa was threatened with adverse reaction if he brought light to the situation and marred the "business". We will never know. But the important thing we have to remember is it's about PSU...the current players weren't even high school graduates when this all happened. We still need to rally behind PSU as a team for them. So to say shame on Penn State, I don't agree with that. Shame on the leadership who glossed over it all to avoid losing a buck....not the students. Enough kids' lives were affected. We should disgrace the current students, or any of the students, and make their lives more difficult too. Man, I miss debating with you! (Even though I always lose to the debate team champ! Ha ha!) Miss you girlie!!
*shouldn't disgrace the current students, or any of the students....
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No ma'am. Nope. I will not rally behind this sports program and I will not support students who are more interested in their coach then the lives of children. I read all about the rally. It wasn't to support a legacy, it was a protest. A protest of the firing of Joe. A man who obviously knew something, as he banned Sandusky from bringing anymore children to the sports facility after he was told about it. (Not that he looked into it or anything. He just didn't want it happening where he could be held responsible for it.)
And don't even start to blame the victims. A 10 year old boy is sexually molested by a man that was suppose to help him and protect him. Out of confusion, shame, etc., victims don't come forward. Adults will feel shame into hiding what happened to them for years and years, so I can't imagine the courage that it is taking for these people to come forward at all. And I completely agree, all of the witnesses took too long to go to the police. They went to the "sports program". That's disgusting. And who says there wasn't enough evidence? They never turned it to the police.
Saying that he was ok because he did his "legal" responsibility is a bunch of disgusting bullshit. And the argument in general pisses me off.
So no, I continue to say shame on PSU and everyone involved. Including the students who would protest the firing of Joe and all of those involved. Of course I am not including people who were completely unaware or had no part in it whatsoever.
Jen- if your child was molested by a man that was suppose to be there to help him. You found out years later because of the shame and fear the child felt. And you found out that there were so many people who had been told it may have been happening and not one person came to protect your child, including the head coach. Wouldn't you want every single one of those people punished? Every single one of those people, including Joe, are partially responsible for the continued abuse of those children. I don't give a shit what the law says. As a human being, as a person, there is no justification. And I continue to say, shame on Penn State.
PS: Hope you are doing well!!!!!!!! *HUGS*
I totally agree with you when you say you're not including those people who didn't know (students, teachers, etc.) That's what I was meaning when I said the current students who weren't even high school graduates yet are going to feel the repercussions of something they had absolutely no knowledge of. This year's seniors are under enough pressure to get scouted (if they want to proceed to NFL) without having this scandal held above THEIR heads, thusly affecting their lives too. I didn't expect the abused children to come out and speak (although apparently now they're not hesitating since Anderson Cooper interviewed several of them on his show today); I was wondering why the actual people who witnessed the abuse (the guy who walked in on them, etc.) didn't go to the police sooner. I do agree that JoePa morally was wrong. He should have reported it to the cops after he saw nothing was being done. And FYI Sandusky has been under investigation since 2009; this isn't something that is a new topic. It's now just going public. So what happened between 2002 and then, I don't know. But it has been an ongoing investigation. And I totally agree that if it was my kid I'd want everyone involved punished to the nth degree. I'm not arguing with the fact that people were wrong. People were definitely wrong. However, I think its wrong to lump all the good people with the handful of bad into "Shame on PSU" when the 98% didn't even have anything to do with/any knowledge of it. The whole thing is just a shame, and it's becoming a media circus. I could go on forever, and for every point I'd make you'd have an awesome counterpoint. Could you imagine the state of the workplace if we were still at CER together and having this discussion?!? Ha ha ha! Other than my football teams biting the big one this year, I'm doing good. :) Are you getting excited for ETSing?

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