Friday, February 25, 2011

A Trainer's Rant on "Trainers"...

       Sooo... As most of you know, I've recently begun my journey as a personal trainer and I am ridiculously happy and excited. It's something that I love, am passionate about, and am good at. It also gives me the ability to make a real difference in someones life that lasts hopefully for the rest of their life.
Me doing yoga, while Blitz spots me. :) Sometimes he joins me. Lol
      So, what's up with this post? What am I ranting about?... The horrible way this profession is being represented by so many lazy, uneducated, and uncaring individuals who call themselves "trainers".
Unfortunately, there are no current regulations or standards on who can call themselves a personal fitness trainer, or what, if any, requirements they should have. Pretty much  Joe Shmoe or Sally Bee can say, "I'm a personal trainer" and start charging people. Even gym's such as Gold's or 24 Hour Fitness don't have the greatest standards towards personal trainers. I've heard many horror stories about people who have had problems with so-called "personal trainers", including having gone through one myself. Trainers constantly canceling last minute, acting unprofessional and uneducated, or simply acting like the don't care are many complaints I've heard.
     Mine was a little different. The first personal trainer I ever had, before the idea of my becoming one was even a thought, was a professional body builder who worked at Gold's Gym. (I will talk more about trainer's who work at Gym's in a moment). Now, I'm a fit person and I'm a stubborn person. If my trainer asks me to do something, I trust them to know what is safe and accurate and I will push myself as hard as I possibly can for them. On our third time training, he had me do such heavy leg squats for so many reps, I literally tore muscles in my legs. I couldn't walk up or down stairs without completely relying on railings,  simply walk with out pain, and it was impossible for me to just sit in a chair (as this mimics leg squats). The pain caused tears in my eyes when I put pressure on my legs. In order to sit down, I had to hold my body weight up on the arms of the chair and literally fall into it. Not relying on my legs at all. This was my experience with a trainer.
    Now that I have decided to dedicate my life to helping people not only become physically fit and nutritionally healthy (also obtaining my Nutrition & Wellness Counseling certification), but to feel confident in themselves and who they are, I think back to all these horror stories I've not only heard, but experienced with a deep sadness and frustration. They give ME a bad name and do not accurately represent this profession.
    I've always been a big believer that education is key to understanding, so I'm going to throw information about what you should expect and look for in a personal trainer.
    First, are they a CERTIFIED personal trainer from a Nationally Accredited organization?  My certifications are through the American Fitness Professionals Association (AFPA). I took a long time and did a lot of research to find a qualified and accredited program that also offered continuing education and specializations. You have the right and it is your obligation to find out what certifications your trainer has, where they obtained them from, and how old they are. A real professional and serious trainer should be like any other person in the medical and health related fields and should be continuously educating themselves on the newest information and best processes. BE WARNED: A degree in a health and fitness related area should NOT substitute for a certification but can be an additional credential to a resume. This is the problem a lot of gyms in college towns have. They have an in-flux of people and a shortage of trainers, so they higher a lot of college students in health and wellness fields that may know nothing about creating appropriate and specialized workout routines and programs for each individual, the safest and most effective methods to gain differing results, etc.
Douglas S. Brooks owns an internationally renown personal fitness company, has multiple degrees in exercise physiology, and still keeps his trainer certifications current with the American Council on Exercise. If you do decide to work with a trainer without a certification, I encourage to ask for references to satisfied clients, and ask how they develop their individualized programs.
     Second is to look for warning signs. Your first consultation with your trainer should be a discovery session. At the very least this session should be filled with asking you questions regarding your medical history, fitness history, goals, desires, and attitudes toward fitness. Some gyms have you fill this paperwork out before you even meet your trainer and you never have this conversation with him or her directly. This is a red flag. If you never have this talk with your trainer and they start going through the motions and put you on machines, back away and walk away. A trainer should NEVER start a work out with you without first going over this information with you themself. It is what the trainer should base your entire workout program on and if they don't have it can end up at the most causing you injury and at the very least, not getting you the results you should be getting, if any. Also, if you go to a trainer who never brings up nutrition, calories, or eating habits with you, this is also a red flag and you should walk away. Becoming a fit and healthy person is as much about your nutrition and eating habits as it is your physical fitness. If the conversation never even comes up, they don't really care to give you the help and education you need for a fully fit and healthy lifestyle. Plus it is key to a weight loss program of any kind. Your trainer does not necessarily have to have a certification in this area but they should at least be somewhat educated and should talk to you regarding your nutrition. This may or may not include a nutritional plan and advised guidelines. I advise and develop them for my clientele, some trainers don't offer this service and some clients don't want it. But developed program or not, the topic must be always be brought up and discussed.
     Last is professionalism. Your trainer should be and should act like a professional. This includes the way they address you, present themself, and act towards the profession. A trainer who frequently cancels or is late, acts aloof or unconcerned during sessions, doesn't track and/or discuss your progress with you, etc. is not worth your money or your time. Which brings up another point, a trainer is like a lot of things in life, you get what you pay for. Trainers that offer a rate of 9$ an hour will most likely give you the quality of 9$ an hour (with very, very rare exceptions). Find out what the appropriate going rate is in your area and stay within that range. If you have problems financially affording a trainer, contact them and discuss payment and package options. For example, I will charge a certain rate per hour for different sessions. If I meet you at your home, the session will be slightly higher then if I meet you at the gym. I also offer combination rates, where you and a friend/relative can work out together and the hourly rate drops. Most trainers provide these types of options. If you are one of those that spends 10$ a day on McDonald's (50$ a week) is isn't a viable argument that personal trainers are expensive at 25$ an hour for 2 sessions a week.  
     So, like I said, I'm very excited about this adventure and thrilled to finally be on my way. Right now there is a lot of bad stigma towards the profession and I hope that as time goes on, the bad ones are mostly filtered out and people can see what it really is: A very precise and special health profession that can help people fight, prevent and even reverse diabetes, heart failure, strokes, depression and many, many other serious illnesses. As well as give people a sense of strength and well being they never knew they could have. At least, these are my goals. This is why I'm here. I want to help people to help themselves. For life.

More amazing photos from the wonderful Jessica!!

Hello everyone! Jessica put up another picture preview on her blog of Aj's and my shoot! I love them all! Here they are!!! :)

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

When online gaming kills...

My friend wrote a very interesting, and I believe informative blog about the dangers of addiction to online gaming. I thought it worth linking to. You can read it here.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Ashley Madison...

... Has anyone else ever heard of this website? I remember the first time I heard of it. It was a couple of years ago on the radio and I honestly thought it was a joke. When I discovered that it wasn't, I felt honestly ill and very offended. Yes, offended. Now, I am not a judgmental person but I do believe in standards and I do have morals. I also believe that the society I live in should have standards. And every time I see an advertisement for AshleyMadison, I become angered and saddened at society where this website boasts over 8 million members and can be so unabashed as to have a commercial on during my House marathon (although it is on Bravo..).
     I'm all for free speech, and no, I don't believe it should be illegal, I just wish that our society had standards. That people had standards. That making money through such means in such an audacious and blatant way would be beneath the masses. But I guess I have always been somewhat of an idealist.
    If you haven't heard of ashleymadison, first off, thats a good thing. Second off, let me explain to you what it is. It is a site for married people to go on in order to have an discrete affair with another married person in their area. And no, it doesn't hide it. Their motto is the following: "Life is short. Have an affair." And that is exactly how they advertise it. On the radio, on television, magazines... It makes me so angry and sad all at the same time.
    My reason for this post, is what do you think about the blatant advertisement? How do you feel about it and do you (like me) secretly wish that the advertisements were illegal but also understand and are thankful that you live in a country where they aren't, or do you truly believe they should be? Or, do you think it's no big deal? This is a sociological paradox to me, so I wanted to throw it out there.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Petals and Potpourri

     Some of you may remember the post in December where I put up pictures of my birthday flowers from AJ. What you may not know is that not only were these the first flowers that AJ has ever bought me, they are actually the first flowers he has bought, ever. Making them have that much more sentimental value to me and I really, really did not want to throw them away. So, my friend Nicole posted a blog a few weeks ago on her crafts and hobbies she had been working on, which gave me an idea. I will do something crafty with them (I know, giant intellectual leap there....).
     So thank you Nicole! I now have beautiful potpourri from the petals of the flowers my amazing husband sent me. (Picture quality still sucks.. Still waiting on that new camera..)
The original flowers from Mr. Amazing!


And now the potpourri from the petals!!

Friday, February 11, 2011

Our Two Weeks Together

Aj is gone again. We couldn't have asked for a better two weeks together. I took as many pictures as I remembered to help commemorate and relay the story of our time together, but in all honesty, picture taking was the last thing on my mind. It was a wonderful time. During which we celebrated Christmas, our birthdays, and our anniversary. We furnished our apartment, decorated the Christmas tree, opened presents and had our pictures professionally taken. We celebrated the Super Bowl and as such, the Green Bay Packers, took our football franchise all the way through the Super Bowl on Madden 2011, we played catch and football with each other and Blitz in the park, had a "Terrific Lady Day", went out to dinner and a movie, and my personal favorite, spent a lot of time on our new couches snuggling and watching our favorite shows.

We now have this beautiful apartment but Aj is gone again and it no longer feels like home. He's been gone 6 hours. Just six hours and I miss him so bad it hurts. Saying goodbye at the airport was so hard. But- looking to the positive side- this will be the last time I will have to say goodbye to him like this. He should be home by June, which means we've gotten through the worse part of this. Plus, we just spent an absolutely amazing two weeks together. Thank you so much for all your support!!! Here is a chronicle of our time the past 14 days.

First- if you would like to see a small sample of our pictures we had taken by the wonderful Jessica Woods, we haven't received all of the shoot yet, but she did put up a sneak peak of our photographs, which you can view here. She did a wonderful job and Aj & I had a wonderful time.

A lot of you helped me pick out hair and outfit ideas for our reunion at the airport. So here are some before and after pictures. I apologize for the quality, they are dreadful, but I owe you them! Also, it was just myself at the airport to pick him up, so sorry, no snap shots of the actual reunion. I can tell you though, that I ran to Aj and into his arms with such force that the security guard commented: "Wow, she could be a linebacker." I found that pretty amusing, especially considering the shoes I was wearing. So, here you have before and afters, thank you for your help on everything. Sorry the quality is terrible!!!
































     
 The best part was my shoes!!!!











Like I said, when Aj got home we furnished our apartment. Unfortunately, I do not have any before pics of what our apartment looked like, but I assure you, this is an improvement!

Then we celebrated Christmas. We decorated the tree, had our own Christmas Eve tradition (we give each other gag gifts. Mine from Aj was a Dallas Cowboy beanie, and his was a Greenbay Packer hard hat.. Great minds think alike!), watched Christmas movies, opened gifts, and had Christmas dinner together. It was wonderful.
Our tree!!! We loved it!!

I bought Aj a new nice set of golf clubs, and my mother bought him cowboy accessories to go with it.

Aj bought me a replica of Lambeau Field, an Aaron Rodgers Jersey, AND these awesome bobbleheads not pictured.

Aj with his new acoustic guitar, his Miles Austin throwback jersey, and his AUTOGRAPHED Jason Witten Jersey.

We also got a blu ray with some of our favorite movies and Aj bought me this beautiful Jewelry box.
We received other things from friends and family, please don't feel bad if we don't have it pictured here. We were trying to remember to take pics, but many things fleeted our minds during RR. Thank you so much for everything, including the many Christmas Cards and phone calls we had that day. We love you very much!

One of the best parts of RR was that Aj was home for the Super Bowl, and in case you were wondering, THE GREEN BAY PACKERS WON THE SUPERBOWL!!! HELL TO THE YES!!! WOOT!!! Although Aj is a die hard Cowboys fan, always has been and always will be, he is also an amazingly supportive husband and did his best to route my team on as well. He'll even admit to being slightly bitter and grumpy watching the Cheeseheads play in the Superbowl in Dallas, but he did his best to be the best sport possible. He even wore an Aaron Rodgers jersey for the game. I love this man. :)

Getting our GAME FACES on!!!
If you look at his face, you can tell this hurts him a little..    :)

Pizza Hut Pizza for the Bowl... LOTS of it! It lasted us a few days......
I made a bet with the guy's at work, before the play offs even started, that if the Packers won the Super Bowl, I could fly my Green Bay Packers flag on our flag pole at the Dept of Wildlife... Obviously they lost the bet, so AJ and I went to my office so that not only could I gloat, but also to have a ceremonious raising of the flag. Rod was kind enough to take a picture for us.
So.. the story of Aj's and Blitz's reunion... When Aj first arrived at the apartment (I'll add here that he had never before set foot in this apartment, we had to move while he was gone) Blitz was in his kennel. Blitz, not being used to seeing a male in the apartment, growled and barked when he saw Aj walk in with me. When Aj went to go and let him out, he opened the kennel and Blitz froze and stared at him for a while. Aj called to him a few times and Blitz bolted from the kennel completely ecstatic, jumping all over him. And although he is and will always be a mommas boy, he was inseparable from Aj's hip the entire time Aj was home.
This picture looks mildly staged, but it wasn't. Blitz would just not leave Aj's side!

That's all the photo's I have for you, and the best I can do at a synopsis of our RR time together. I already miss him and am looking forward to when he gets home for good, which will be in a lot shorter time frame then it was till his RR. Thank you all for everything. We mean that. We are getting there everyone!! One day at a time. I miss you already babe. So much.